Towards the end of 2023, I received a coaching application from a gentleman who'd been reading my writing for quite some time, and saw that I offer private coaching. | Because I keep my clients confidential, let's call him "B." | B, in his late 40s, (like MANY others), was frustrated with dating, and was looking to me for guidance in tweaking his approach to attract women better suited for him. | By all accounts, he's got the boxes checked. Tall, successful, willing to put in effort, a good communicator… | His frustration was understandable. | We agreed upon 6 months of coaching and began diving in to his mindset, where he was spending his time, how he was presenting himself on dating apps… | "I'm deleting these apps next month" he told me. "They're nothing but headaches." | "Alright," I replied, "But before you do that - let's make some tweaks together and see if we can spark any new interest." | I learned more about him, what was important to him in life and love, we discussed his wants and NEEDS, and crafted a profile that he was happy with. | Through the following weeks, he began receiving higher levels of interest, matches, and messages than before. | He went on a few dates, and…"meh." Not much of a spark. | I encouraged continued enthusiasm. Persistence. | One day, not long after, he texted me. | "Man…I started talking to this new woman, I'm really excited about her." | Today as I write you this email, they've been dating exclusively for nearly 3 months and he frequently texts me about how amazing she is and how much they're enjoying each other's company. | Imagine if he'd given up hope when there seemed to be none left… | Imagine if he had deleted the dating apps just one week (or one DAY) sooner. | They never would've met. | This is one of the major benefits of private coaching - an accountability partner who keeps you on track towards your goals and doesn't let you give up too soon. | Someone who recognizes your strengths and helps you capitalize on them. | Someone who walks the journey alongside of you. | For the past 17 years, I have been helping people achieve similar results through private, personalized one-on-one coaching. | If this would benefit you, click here to fill out a short application now, and let's have a discussion. | Odds are, you just need some small tweaks to reach your ultimate destination, but they become harder to see the more frustrated that you get. | Let's work together to regain clarity. | Apply here now, and I will reach out. | See you soon, | -James | | | |
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