The less you say, the more you learn.  ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌

April 29, 2026   |   Read online Silence is a screening tool The less you say, the more you learn. Most people use conversation to express…few use it to observe. But, silence is one of the most effective ways to understand others. When you stop filling space, you’ll find that people begin to fill it themselves: They reveal priorities. They reveal insecurities. They reveal intentions they did not plan to share. Not because they are careless…but because silence makes them uncomfortable. And discomfort creates disclosure. This is why silence is a powerful screening tool. It allows you to gather information without effort, to see patterns without interference, to allow others to show you who they are…without influence. Most people interrupt this process. They speak to keep the conversation moving, or respond too quickly, or insert themselves into the space where clarity could have formed on its own. And in doing so, they lose visibility. Silence creates contrast. The person who is comfortable with it appears grounded. The person who is not…begins to reveal themselves. You start to notice: Who needs validation. Who speaks with intention. Who over-explains. Who becomes unsettled. All without asking a direct question. This applies beyond conversation. In business → silence reveals negotiation position. In relationships → it reveals emotional stability. In leadership → it reveals confidence. Silence removes distraction and allows truth to surface. To use silence effectively, resist the impulse to respond immediately. Let pauses exist. Maintain presence without filling space. You will begin to see more, hear more, understand more. Because silence does not limit communication...It clarifies it. And those who are comfortable in silence gain access to information others miss. Less speaking. More seeing. Your coach, -James Michael Sama P.S.: If you’re looking for a private advisor to help you develop these qualities, let’s talk.   Update your email preferences or unsubscribe here © 2026 Your secret weapon. 228 Park Ave S, #29976, New York, New York 10003, United States Powered by beehiiv Terms of Service

Matthew and Cynthia are coming to Victoria BC. Come to our RTF Event 'How to Conquer Tyranny and Avoid Tragedy' (M…

What forgotten battles against tyranny must be learned if we are not to fall into tragedy and collapse today?

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	Forwarded this email? Subscribe here for more Matthew and Cynthia are coming to Victoria BC. Come to our RTF Event 'How to Conquer Tyranny and Avoid Tragedy' (May 16) Rising Tide Foundation Apr 29   READ IN APP   What forgotten battles against tyranny must be learned if we are not to fall into tragedy and collapse today? By what miracle did western civilization emerge onto the scene as a bastion of liberty and discoveries? What sorts of partnerships between city builders of Egypt, Greece and Rome were needed to bring about a conspiracy for freedom against the forces of oligarchism represented by the high priesthood of the mystery cults? How did Solon, Socrates, Plato, Cicero and St. Augustine organize a battle plan to save not just their own decaying civilizations, but all future generations? In this interactive seminar in Victoria British Columbia (Saturday May 16 from 3-6pm), Cynthia Chung and Matthew Ehret will explore these questions and much more. Tickets are only 15 bucks, but spaces are limited so pick them up at the Eventbrite link below; The Rising Tide Foundation (RTF), a non-profit based out of Montreal, Canada, dedicated to the rigorous re-examination of Universal History and the principles governing the cyclical appearance of Renaissances and Dark Ages in human civilization. Watch our RTF films and documentaries here. Consider supporting our work by subscribing to our substack page and Telegram channel at t.me/RisingTideFoundation. Rising Tide Foundation Dedicated to the enhancement of cross-cultural understanding and dialogue between east and west. You're currently a free subscriber to Rising Tide Foundation. For the full experience, upgrade your subscription. Upgrade to paid   Like Comment Restack   © 2026 Rising Tide Foundation PO Box 3, Ste Martine, Quebec, J0S 1V0 Unsubscribe

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April 27, 2026   |   Read online Frustrated with relationships? When did things get so complicated? Relationships can be confusing, can’t they? You’ve got to learn someone’s love language (and your own), their attachment style (and your own), the meaning behind their internal thoughts (and your own…) and before you know it, the whole thing is just so exhausting that you’ve thrown your hands up in the air and pledged to stay single forever (again). Or, you’re in a relationship and are navigating these same exact questions, except now you’re doing it alongside of a partner who’s equally as confused as you are. This is particularly frustrating for high achievers like you, because it’s a much different formula than anything we find in business. Suddenly, A+B doesn’t = C anymore like it does when you follow a business practice. Now it equals Q, and nobody knows why. Ah, humans and our nuances. I’ve spent the past 20+ years of my life researching the dynamics of relationships. Intimate, social, professional, and of course, with the self. I’ve written more than 1,000 articles on the topic, two books, and have appeared across local and national media for more than a decade. And, for a select few, I serve as their private coach behind the scenes, helping to guide them along this terrain whether they are single, in a relationship, or recovering from a breakup. I’ve guided hundreds of individuals over my career to happier and healthier relationships, both with others, but most of all…with themselves. If this feels like the right time to explore private coaching, fill out this application and I’ll reach out to you directly if we’re a potential fit to work together. Looking forward to meeting you, - James Michael Sama   Update your email preferences or unsubscribe here © 2026 Your secret weapon. 228 Park Ave S, #29976, New York, New York 10003, United States Powered by beehiiv Terms of Service